My Wheels

I missed International Wheelchair Day a few days ago, but I still want to talk about it. There's a common misconception that resorting to using a wheelchair means giving up. In reality, most people wait far too long before they start using one. We risk our safety, comfort, and independence because we don't want to "give up."

I've never spoken with a wheelchair user who regrets that they started using one. In fact, most wish they had started using one earlier.

I'm an ambulatory wheelchair user. I always use a wheelchair unless I'm going somewhere that is only a few steps from the car, and where I know I can sit down right away. If I use my wheelchair, I can more fully engage in what is going on around me. I'm not constantly looking for somewhere to sit, or worrying about my tremor, or worried about falling. I can pay attention to what is being said. When I use my cane instead, even a 5 minute errand becomes too much for me (which I learned the hard way). All of my energy goes into staying upright. I can't take in what is being said or process what I'm seeing, all energy is being diverted. And I don't have much energy to start with. Using a wheelchair makes sense for me.

This is your friendly reminder to never ask someone if they really need their wheelchair. If they're using it, they need it. And please avoid leaning on anyone's wheelchair. It feels like we're about to be tipped backwards and isn't very pleasant.